In my work as a psychological counsellor I follow the approach that psychological suffering has its causes in one or more conflicts, that are probably lodged only in the unconsciounsness. Based on this assumption, we analyse the connection between the current psychological suffering and the unconscious causes. Building a trusting relationship with my clients is the alpha and omega of retrieving and recalling the unconscious conflicts. This reciprocal trust relationship helps them to learn and subsequently cope with emotional stress and conflict issues in a different manner, that is, solve unconscious past conflicts that have led to the current psychological condition.